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嫁给一个自己不爱的男人，我该怎么办？

wangmy5201314: 长年在外工作的我，很少回家去，虽然有不少的男性朋友，但是感觉起来都不是自己应该结婚的对象，去年国庆节回家，被外婆强拉去相亲，一个条件一般，一米六，长相不怎么样的男人，本已回绝了对方，但由于其爷爷快过世，其男方介绍人一直在跟我谈，（其男方的介绍人也是跟我们很熟的朋友），由天那段时间我在外比较忙，也刚巧遇到了一些烦心事，也有想定下来的打算，但随口答应了那男方介绍人的要求，于是，订婚日期就这样订下来了，订婚当天我越看男方越不对劲，越想越后悔，我家的姑姑叔叔们都不是很满意，但是碍于面子，我没有再说什么？就这样，认识不到一个月就订婚了，订婚不到一个月，他爷爷就过世了，接着，他家里人一直在催着，想赶在年前结婚，本来没想那么快结婚的我，拗不过他父亲的软硬兼施，说是他们那里的风俗有长辈过世就要在年内结婚才可以，于是也就这样不明不白答应了，风俗婚礼是进行了，但是在法律上，我还想再考虑清楚，所以还没去办手续领证，直到现在有五个月的身孕了，还不想去办，他的性格内向，一个朋友都没有，从小就是家里的乖乖子，一点主见都没有，更别说性格了，一点脾气都没有，在工作方面也没有什么能力，（也许这就是他家人催着先结婚的理由吧）面对这么一个人，而且还是自己不爱的人，我真的不知道该怎么去面对他生活，但是小孩子是无辜的，现在的我，该怎么办？长年在外工作的我，很少回家去，虽然有不少的男性朋友，但是感觉起来都不是自己应该结婚的对象，去年国庆节回家，被外婆强拉去相亲，一个条件一般，一米六，长相不怎么样的男人，本已回绝了对方，但由于其爷爷快过世，其男方介绍人一直在跟我谈，（其男方的介绍人也是跟我们很熟的朋友），由天那段时间我在外比较忙，也刚巧遇到了一些烦心事，也有想定下来的打算，但随口答应了那男方介绍人的要求，于是，订婚日期就这样订下来了，订婚当天我越看男方越不对劲，越想越后悔，我家的姑姑叔叔们都不是很满意，但是碍于面子，我没有再说什么？就这样，认识不到一个月就订婚了，订婚不到一个月，他爷爷就过世了，接着，他家里人一直在催着，想赶在年前结婚，本来没想那么快结婚的我，拗不过他父亲的软硬兼施，说是他们那里的风俗有长辈过世就要在年内结婚才可以，于是也就这样不明不白答应了，风俗婚礼是进行了，但是在法律上，我还想再考虑清楚，所以还没去办手续领证，直到现在有五个月的身孕了，还不想去办，他的性格内向，一个朋友都没有，从小就是家里的乖乖子，一点主见都没有，更别说性格了，一点脾气都没有，在工作方面也没有什么能力，（也许这就是他家人催着先结婚的理由吧）面对这么一个人，而且还是自己不爱的人，我真的不知道该怎么去面对他生活，但是小孩子是无辜的，现在的我，该怎么办？

发表于 08-06-30 14:07 (固定链接 )
wangmy5201314: 1

难道真的要为了小孩子，就这样过一生吗？但是不要小孩的话，我又会良心不安？好矛盾！<FONT color=#ff6600 size=6>难道真的要为了小孩子，就这样过一生吗？但是不要小孩的话，我又会良心不安？好矛盾！</FONT>

发表于 08-06-30 14:09 (固定链接 )
letian666666: 2

看来你父亲的封建思想也太。。。有了孩子，才来发牢骚。。。唉。。不是太迟，是有点不好而已，对孩子，你自己都说啦。。

不过为了一生的幸福，也许要自私点，但等孩子。。。再说吧，对不起良心哦你都是善良之人该知道如何做的了。。。
<P>看来你父亲的封建思想也太。。。有了孩子，才来发牢骚。。。唉。。不是太迟，是有点不好而已，对孩子，你自己都说啦。。</P> <P>不过为了一生的幸福，也许要自私点，但等孩子。。。再说吧，对不起良心哦你都是善良之人该知道如何做的了。。。 </P>

发表于 08-06-30 19:35 (固定链接 )
avnl77: 3

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发表于 08-07-02 13:30 (固定链接 )
wangtao1117: 5

同情。没有爱情。更没感情。不要跟他过了。希望大家去我那里坐坐。