有一天，爸妈会变老。
在关心男女朋友....好朋友的同时.... 别忘了也花点时间多陪陪爸妈...多关心他们喔!!!
如果你在一个平凡的家庭长大；如果你的父母还健在；不管你有没有和他们同住；
如果有一天，你发现厨房不再像以前那么乾净；
如果有一天，你发现家中的碗筷好像没洗乾净；
如果有一天，你发现母亲的锅子不再雪亮；
如果有一天，你发现父亲的花草树木已渐荒废；
如果有一天，你发现家中的地板橱柜经常沾满灰尘；
如果有一天，你发现母亲煮的菜太咸太难吃；
如果有一天，你发现父母经常忘记关瓦斯；
如果有一天，你发现老父老母的一些习惯不再是习惯时………，就像他们不再想要天天洗澡时……
如果有一天，你发现父母不再爱吃青脆的蔬果；
如果有一天，你发现父母爱吃煮得烂烂的菜；
如果有一天，你发现父母喜欢吃稀饭；
如果有一天，你发现他们过马路行动反应都慢了；
如果有一天，你发现在吃饭时间他们老是咳个不停，千万别误以为他们感冒或著凉，(那是吞咽神经老化的现象)；
如果有一天，你发觉他们不再爱出门…
我要告诉你，你要警觉父母真的已经老了，器官已经退化到需要别人照料了;
如果你不能照料，请你替他们找人照料，并请你千万千万要常常探望他们，不要让他们觉得被遗弃了。
每个人都会老，父母比我们先老，我们要用角色互换的心情去照料他们，才会有耐心、才不会有怨言。当父母不能料理自己的时候，为人子女要警觉，他们可能会大小便失禁、可能会很多事都做不好，如果房间有异味，可能他们自己也闻不到，请不要嫌他脏或嫌他，为人子女的只能帮他清理，并请维持他们的『自尊心』。
当他们不再爱洗澡时，请抽空定期帮他们洗身体，因为纵使他们自己洗也可能洗不乾净。当我们在享受食物的时候，请替他们准备一份大小适当、容易咀嚼的一小碗，因为他们不爱吃可能是牙齿咬不动了。
从我们出生开始，喂奶换尿布、生病的不眠不休照料、教我们生活基本能力、供给读书、吃喝玩乐和补习，关心和行动永远都不停。
如果有一天，他们真的动不了，角色互换不也是应该的吗？为人子女者要切记，看父母就是看自己的未来，孝顺要及时。
如果有一天，你像他们一样老时，你希望怎么过？
现在的你，是在当单身寄生虫、还是已婚双料或多料寄生虫？你有留意过自己的父母吗？请关心和留意他们正在逐渐老化的过程，也别忘了花多点时间陪陪爸妈...多关心他们喔!!! (不要经常对他们呼喝)
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有一天,爸妈会变老
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zhangqian316
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jy2001918
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是啊,我们长大了,爸妈也老了.多陪陪她们,不要让她们再操心啦! -
aaa710344305
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尽一点做儿女的孝心吧.支持 -
zeng908
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人到中年,上有老,下有小,也就真正的感悟到"儿要报恩而亲不在"痛了,这种痛会让伴你走进每一个无助的角落,朋友们,如果你们的父母还在,常回家看看,常打个电话问候一声,如果是工作太忙,托朋友捎个话,捎件衣服,带点点心,这些都能让父母感动的.出远门了,第一件事就是给父母打个电话报个平安,别让他们为你担心,这些点点滴滴都是平淡而真切的.在此我祝愿群里朋友的父母们平安健康.
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erika1314520
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我想如果我们不懂孝顺，将来我们的孩子也会这样对我们。。
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shengyenan21
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是啊!
常回家看看
常陪妈转转
常跟爸侃侃...
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zhaomuqunzhu
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电视剧《守望幸福》，这家子真是其乐融融。
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dhsty24
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常回家看看。
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zhaomuqunzhu
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prettyyangyang
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The Childhood Days
When you came into the world, she held you in her arms. You thanked her by wailing1) like a banshee2).
When you were 1 year old, she fed you and bathed you. You thanked her by crying all night long.
When you were 2 years old, she taught you to walk. You thanked her by running away when she called.
When you were 3 years old, she made all your meals with love. You thanked her by tossing your plate on the floor.
When you were 4 years old, she gave you some crayons3). You thanked her by coloring the dining room table.
When you were 5 years old, she dressed you for the holidays. You thanked her by plopping4) into the nearest pile of mud.
When you were 6 years old, she walked you to school. You thanked her by screaming, “I’M NOT GOING!”
When you were 7 years old, she bought you a baseball. You thanked her by throwing it through the next-door-neighbor’s window.
When you were 8 years old, she handed you an ice cream. You thanked her by dripping it all over your lap.
When you were 9 years old, she paid for piano lessons. You thanked her by never even bothering to practice.
When you were 10 years old, she drove you all day, from soccer to gymnastics to one birthday party after another. You thanked her by jumping out of the car and never looking back.
When you were 11 years old, she took you and your friends to the movies. You thanked her by asking to sit in a different row.
When you were 12 years old, she warned you not to watch certain TV shows. You thanked her by waiting until she left the house.
Those Teenage Years
When you were 13, she suggested a haircut that was becoming5). You thanked her by telling her she had no taste.
When you were 14, she paid for a month away at summer camp. You thanked her by forgetting to write a single letter.
When you were 15, she came home from work, looking for a hug. You thanked her by having your bedroom door locked.
When you were 16, she taught you how to drive her car. You thanked her by taking it every chance you could.
When you were 17, she was expecting an important call. You thanked her by being on the phone all night.
When you were 18, she cried at your high school graduation. You thanked her by staying out partying until dawn.
Growing Old and Gray
When you were 19, she paid for your college tuition, drove you to campus, carried your bags. You thanked her by saying good-bye outside the dorm so you wouldn’t be embarrassed in front of your friends.
When you were 20, she asked whether you were seeing anyone. You thanked her by saying, “It’s none of your business.”
When you were 21, she suggested certain careers for your future. You thanked her by saying, “I don’t want to be like you.”
When you were 22, she hugged you at your college graduation. You thanked her by asking whether she could pay for a trip to Europe.
When you were 23, she gave you furniture for your first apartment. You thanked her by telling your friends it was ugly.
When you were 24, she met your fiancé and asked about your plans for the future. You thanked her by glaring and growling, “Muuhh-ther, please!”
When you were 25, she helped to pay for your wedding, and she cried and told you how deeply she loved you. You thanked her by moving halfway across the country.
When you were 30, she called with some advice on the baby. You thanked her by telling her, “Things are different now.”
When you were 40, she called to remind you of an relative’s birthday. You thanked her by saying you were “really busy right now”.
When you were 50, she fell ill and needed you to take care of her. You thanked her by talking about the burden parents become to their children.
And then, one day, she quietly died. And everything you never did came crashing down like thunder. “Rock me baby, rock me all night long.” “The hand who rocks the cradle... may rock the world”.
Let us take a moment of the time just to pay tribute and show appreciation to the person called MOM though some may not say it openly to their mother. There’s no substitute for her. Cherish every single moment. Though at times she may not be the best of friends, may not agree to our thoughts, she is still your mother!
Your mother will be there for you; to listen to your woes6), your brags7), your frustrations, etc. Ask yourself “Have you put aside enough time for her, to listen to her ‘blues’ of working in the kitchen, her tiredness?”
Be tactful, loving and still show her due8) respect, though you may have a different view from hers. Once gone, only fond memories of the past and also regrets will be left.
Do not take for granted the things closest to your heart. Love her more than you love yourself. Life is meaningless without her.
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zhangqian316
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仿佛很多年,
都没有和妈妈一起做饭了.
今天终于有机会,
合作还相当愉快.
我洗碗,
妈妈抱我侄子,
我问:妈呀,您能不能活到您孙子娶媳妇啊?
老妈说:我要使劲活,我要给俺孙子长眼相孙子媳妇呢!
心酸,开始,我.
哥哥三十了,才生孩子.
妈妈使劲活,也不能再活五十多年,这一点,我必须残酷的认识到.
所以,我该干点人事.让老娘她放心安心幸福骄傲.
只有我奋斗努力,爸爸妈妈才不会为我操心,生活有保障,才健康快乐.
只要我正直,只要我善良,只要我脚踏实地.
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yidingdian
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不希望有那么一天的到来……不是怕麻烦，而是怕痛苦……
从现在就该好好对待父母了……
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avnl66
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似水流年
谈情说爱
有爱就要说
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