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曾经幸福的家庭面临崩溃继而陷于窒息状态
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ikbk63415
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有个老同学,中学英语教师,五十几岁了;丈夫是高自己两届的大学校友,在某大学是小有名气的教授;儿子北大本科毕业即带着奖学金赴美读研,现如今已在美国名校读完硕士正攻读博士;住在市中心高校小区;多年来煞被周围目光羡慕,堪称幸福家庭。如今曾经幸福的家庭面临崩溃继而陷于窒息状态!原因是妻子无意间发现教授有了婚外情,并有其移动磁盘内的有色照片佐证,兼有无聊手机短信旁证;于是,原本看似恩爱的夫妻反目,妻子将家丑公之于众,将自已送至医院;教授的科研独立办公室被封,双双高调要离婚,战事不断升级;儿子千里迢迢赶回国,极尽人子之孝,努力维护曾经幸福的家庭;加之儿子在内的亲情们的调解,战事休停;儿子带着无尽的牵挂返美,教授放暑假仍早去晚归努力在大办公室工作着,妻子万事不问视教授为透明体,这个曾经幸福骄傲的家庭趋于异常的平静。听老同学用自嘲的口吻向我叙述自已的故事如同在讲他人的故事,我更多的是无语~~~~~~~我不知道他们能撑多久,也不知道他们心里有多痛,我只知道是我肯定一刀两断!!望着其实过去并不是太喜欢的老同学,我竟然心很痛。
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zhaomuqunzhu
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ikbk63415
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多谢赏识。
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rosemary119
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人生很重要的使命----对孩子的养育既然已经成功.那么,离婚也未必不可.既然彼此已经不再牵挂.那么就去追求自己的幸福吧.女人离了男人又能怎样。 -
ikbk63415
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可悲的是这个女人又不甘心离婚,觉得离婚损失最大的是女人。 -
avnl77
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nyzxn3607109
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万物都在变化,幸福的家庭也不是一成不变的,美好的幸福都是相对而言。 -
ikbk63415
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我还是不太能理解类似的变故。一个也可以说是功成名就的知识型中年男人,太太是自选的不丑不傻也体贴,互相扶持25年没有原则性的矛盾,儿子是自已的骄傲且已成人成才,却又为何不珍惜呢??
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ikbk63415
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教授也疯狂!! -
wolanga
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ikbk63415
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希望我的同学如我今天在网上看到的晨曦那样,继续作个美丽的女人。


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